October 5th, 2017 | Alexis Forsyth
This morning on the blog, we’re heading to the enchanting Colshaw Hall in Cheshire for Dawn and Jayson’s special day, which took place in August of this year.
Following a surprise engagement, the couple fell in love with this exquisite venue – and we can see why. Adorning the backdrop with a pretty palette of purple, lime green and pink, together with beautiful candles and petals – Colshaw Hall was every bit the romantic backdrop that the couple hoped it would be.
From a special reading from their daughter to a balloon release and a rather unique speech from the bridesmaids – they had every detail covered, and then some. We should also mention that we have a serious dose of cake envy – just look at their elegant four-tiered masterpiece.
With images by Brides Up North Sponsor Lee Brown Photography.
dawn says: We got engaged in October 2015, in The Restaurant Bar and Grill in Liverpool. It was a complete surprise to me. Generally, I can sense when there is something going on, but this was a random night out, planned at the last minute – or so I thought. Strangely enough, we were looking at an auction site on the train there and this really ugly ring with a marquise diamond popped up and I said that it wasn’t very nice, little did I know that Jayson had a marquise diamond in his pocket! Afterwards Jayson said I really didn’t make it easy for him. We had a lovely meal and Jayson said, “you know I love you” and I said, “yes of course”, then he responded with “here goes” and got on two knees (not one) and pulled out my nana’s ring box. He then asked me to marry him. I was so overwhelmed and surprised. I loved the simplicity of his proposal, and said yes immediately. Jayson had been to the jewellery quarter in Birmingham and picked the diamond and the setting, designing the ring himself, I was completely blown away.
Our wedding date – 6th August 2017 – chose us, once we had found the venue. We knew that we would prefer August as we wanted to make sure that our children could be part of our special day. Colshaw Hall didn’t have any Saturdays available so we decided on a Sunday instead.
We had both our ceremony and reception at Colshaw Hall, as the venue has its own chapel called The Stables. We had looked at so many other venues, and even considered going abroad, however we kept coming back to Colshaw Hall, so we made an appointment to view it. We were shown around by the owner, David Irlam, and his passion and attention to detail sold it to us. Colshaw Hall is absolutely beautiful and completely unique to anything else we had seen. A venue that is exclusively yours for the day; you actually feel like it’s your home.
We discussed themes for quite some time, and originally we were going to have a Mediterranean theme, but as time passed, we decided to just go with vibrant colours and places in the world we would like to see over our life time together.
My favourite colour is purple, however we didn’t want to have typical wedding flowers so we opted for a colour scheme made up of purple, pink, lime greens and white.
Pinterest was an amazing help to build a picture of the wedding we wanted before I visited Qube Events and Productions in Bury. Qube provided our venue dressing and flowers, and surpassed all of my expectations.
I knew almost straight away what type of dress I wanted: Spanish looking, fitted, lace with detail and a full bottom with a dramatic train.
I visited a number of bridal shops and found nothing unique at all. So I did more research and found Ava Rose Hamilton in Colne. The boutiques that they have looked beautiful and they had a number of designers that I had never seen before so decided to book an appointment. I was welcomed by Kay and she instinctively knew what I wanted and pulled out a number of dresses. As soon as I saw the Enzoani dress I knew it was everything I wanted, and when I tried it on, I knew it was the one.
July 18th, 2017 | Alexis Forsyth
Today on Brides Up North, we’re reminiscing with newlyweds Kate and Danny, who tied the knot earlier this spring at the stunning Colshaw Hall in Cheshire – a private 300-acre estate.
With a penchant for all things Easter, the couple treated their guests to an egg-stra (sorry, had to be done!) spectacular day filled with chocolate eggs, cute bunnies and beautiful daffodils. Their dog Maddie even had a special role to play.
With not just two, three or even four but six bridesmaids and a flower girl – all coordinated in rainbow-bright pastel shades – and the bride herself dressed in an elegant vintage style gown, get ready for a cute springtime wedding.
With images by Ragdoll Photography
kate says: We got engaged on 13th December 2015, at the top of the big hill on Barlaston Downs Banks when taking our little dog Maddie on a Sunday walk. It was also our seven-year anniversary!
Our wedding took place on 12th April 2017 – we picked this date because we wanted a springtime, Easter wedding. We got married at Colshaw Hall in Knutsford, Cheshire – we fell in love with the venue from day one. It has amazing grounds and both the ceremony room and reception room were beautiful boasting natural colours. The accommodation was amazing too – 36 guests from our close family and the bridal party stayed there the night before as well as on the big day itself.
We picked our theme based on my love for Easter. As a little girl, it was always an exciting time in my house, with all the bunnies, chicks and beautiful colours. My family would always get together at this time too.
We chose a pastel palette for our colour scheme, consisting of mint, purple, lemon and lilac – all of my favourite colours! They worked perfectly with our Easter theme.
I brought my dress from Bridal Couture By Josephine in Cheadle. After trying on about 50 dresses, I decided A-line was my kind of dress and the most flattering style. I love lace, so really wanted this fabric, as well as sleeves to cover my arms. When I tried the dress on, it was just perfect!
Danny wore a navy blue slim-fit suit, with a grey and blue check waistcoat with brown shoes, purchased from Maria Modes in Macclesfield. The groomsmen wore matching navy suits with ties made from the same material as the bridesmaid dresses.
Speaking of which – I had seven bridesmaids and one flower girl – two wore lilac, with two in lemon, two in mint and another in pink. The dresses were bought from DIY Dress which is such an amazing website. A special mention should also go to dressmaker Victoria Anthony who altered my bridesmaids’ dresses and made all the ties.
January 3rd, 2017 | Laura McDonagh
It’s holiday season here on the blog, and as the editorial team take a short break, we’ll be leaving you with a reduced blogging schedule so that you still get your daily dose of wedding lovely. Usual service will recommence on Monday 9th January 2017 but in the meantime watch out for recaps of some of our favourite Real Weddings from 2016.
Drop in every day for the very prettiest, most unique wedding inspiration and – if you are a Brides Up North bride – to see if your real wedding was one of our top picks.
Luisa and Peter pulled off the impressive feat of a winter wedding without a can of snow spray or a gilded pine cone in sight. Instead, their big day at Colshaw Hall in Cheshire, was led by an organic woodland theme, full of warm earthy tones and plenty of grown-up black-tie glamour.
The food and the playlist were particular focal points for this Manchester music-loving pair, and the following day saw the festivities extended with an aprés-ski extravaganza. So get comfortable, perhaps with a glass of Malbec or a mulled wine – go on, Luisa would definitely approve!
With images by Jonny Draper Photography
luisa says: Peter and I got engaged in Barbados. One night we went down for dinner and, instead of heading for our usual table in the restaurant, we were led down a path lined with candles that took us to a private beach and a table for two. When we sat down and opened the menus, I saw all of my favourite foods and champagne. Then a steel band appeared playing Elvis Presley’s I Can’t Help Falling In Love With You. When I looked around, Peter was down on one knee; it was a truly magical moment. He made a beautiful speech and, of course, I said yes. We spent the rest of the week celebrating and relaxing; it was just so perfect!
We chose to get married on 19th December 2015 because it was the closest Saturday to the Winter Solstice – a date important to me and my mum. We wanted a winter wedding as we felt that there were lots more options to explore in terms of the decorations and the vibe that we could create.
For the venue, we chose Colshaw Hall in Cheshire. We wanted to make sure that the event was totally private and this was the huge bonus of Colshaw: the venue and all of its grounds are hired exclusively so we wouldn’t be sharing our special day with anyone else. Secondly, as Peter’s family are based in Suffolk, we wanted to make sure that there was accommodation onsite to ensure that the wedding weekend was as easy as possible for those travelling. Having looked at quite a few venues in the area, Colshaw’s accommodation was, we felt, the most beautiful. Each room has its own stunning theme and beautiful view over the grounds. Colshaw’s Peel Suite also offered a beautiful blank canvas; no wedding looks the same there. We had hired the main house for the drinks and canapés straight after the service and this offered a unique, cosy, Christmas drinks party atmosphere.
Theme-wise, we wanted to create a natural and organic winter forest. Peter and I love walking our dog Digby up on the Edge and we wanted to recreate that same earthy, woodland environment. I wanted my wedding to be just that little bit ‘out there’, and having the trees as the centrepiece certainly achieved that goal. As our wedding was the weekend before Christmas, I think people expected us to go down the more conventional festive route and it was truly lovely seeing their reactions to the chapel and the main room. We’d focused on lots of earthy tones, such as dark greens and ambers, making sure that everything was lit by candles to create warmth.
I had chosen quite a traditional and simple gown designed by Stewart Parvin with the lace detail as a nod to my Italian heritage. My dress was bought and styled by the incredible ladies at LOVE Bridal in Cheshire. They helped accessorise my gown with a Stewart Parvin veil, lace jacket and honey-toned belt which contemporised it perfectly. My shoes were Hangisis by Manolo Blahnik; I just loved their quirkiness. In the evening, I removed the lace jacket and added a thin sparkly belt to liven it up for the dancing. I visited several bridal stores and LOVE Bridal’s service surpassed all the London boutiques. From the beautiful little cakes they serve to the ‘grand reveal’, the wonderful Emma and Clare have it covered.
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December 15th, 2016 | Laura McDonagh
Readers, you’re in for a treat. Today’s real wedding is packed with pretty details, from the bride’s stunning Suzanne Neville lace creation to a gorgeous textured bouquet bursting with the best of British colour.
Champagne flowed all day long at this stylish celebration, and the combination of an exquisite menu and live music guaranteed a day to remember for the lovely Lizzy and Toby.
With images by Toni Darcy.
lizzy says: We got engaged on 22nd November 2013 at Split Apple Rock, South Island, New Zealand. We‘d planned a three week trip across New Zealand and this particular place was one of the reasons we went. Before we left, Toby had spoken with my parents to ask them if he could propose and, of course, they said ‘yes!’
We‘d gone to the beach a few days before but I got caught in a wave, so Toby didn’t think it would be best to propose then. So the morning of leaving Split Apple Rock, two weeks into the trip, we went to the beach for the last time with a cup of tea each, sat on the rock together and he asked me to marry him. I was completely shocked and I think he had to ask me twice before I said yes, even though that was my answer on the first asking.
We knew we just didn’t want our wedding day to be one day. Our married friends say the day goes by so quickly, plus I wanted to be married before I was 30, so August bank holiday weekend seemed the perfect weekend to plan for.
We married on Saturday 29th August, allowing us to plan activities for the Friday and Sunday. We married at Saint Peter’s Church in Prestbury, Cheshire, and our celebrations continued at Colshaw Hall. I know that normally the bride marries close to her home, but we decided to be slightly different and marry close to where Toby had grown up. Picturesque surroundings and church were part of the decision but I also wanted my Mum to be able to enjoy the experience and be waited on, rather than having to rush around on the morning of the wedding.
We didn’t really have a particular theme, apart from eat, drink and be merry.
After attending our friends’ weddings, we pinched all the ideas that we really loved and recreated them so that they became our own. Good food, good champagne and good music always lead to lots of fun!
Onto the outfits. My bridesmaids wore soft plum and the groomsmen all wore navy with grey waistcoats. Claret and blue are my favourite colours – Toby reckons it’s because I’m a Burnley girl through and through, but I just think these colours look stunning together!
May 10th, 2016 | Julia Braime
This morning we have a super fun pre-wedding shoot to share with you all that we absolutely love!
Husband and wife-to-be Tim and Natalie, chose a vintage railway in Cheshire as the backdrop to the shoot which they wanted to have a transport/travel feel to fit in with the theme they have planned for their upcoming wedding.
As well as providing the perfect opportunity for them to get comfortable in front of the camera, Tim and Natalie also used the shoot to secure some gorgeous and natural shots for their save the dates to send out to guests, getting them all excited for the big day to come!
With images by Emma Hillier Photography.
natalie says: We got engaged in London 2014, we were there for the Winter Wonderland with Christmas being our favourite time of year since our first holiday in New York together.
Now not that Tim knew this, but I’d actually found a picture of a ring on his iPad early 2014. We had holidayed in Dubai in the May and Barbados in July. In anticipation of a proposal I had bought a whole new wardrobe for each and thought ‘this is it’ every time he asked me to go for a walk along the beach. By the December, the picture of the ring had disappeared and so had my hope of getting engaged. Little did I know Tim had invited my dad round for a curry and beers to ask if he could marry me.
Off we set of to London on the train, where in hindsight the signs were there, not leaving his holdall out of arms reach, insisting that he got the fizz we had packed out of holdall when I was closer, and constantly asking me when I was ready to go out for dinner. Then as I was putting on my necklace in the mirror, I hadn’t noticed he was hovering behind me until I turned around and he had disappeared down onto one knee. I was so surprised when I saw the ring, it wasn’t the one in the picture, it was even more gorgeous!
We have set the date for 31st March 2017 and picked Colshaw Hall in Knutsford, as our venue.
October 22nd, 2015 | Rachel Parry
Today’s real wedding comes with a spectacular surprise engagement that was so well thought out and executed that groom Dave deserves some sort of medal. I’ll let bride Helen explain all the details of the engagement and the wedding (which included another very sweet surprise) in her own words, but all I will say ladies is – prepare to be impressed!
With images by Suzy Wimbourne Photography.
helen says: We got engaged in August 2014 at home. Unbeknown to me Dave had risen at 6am to create something he’d been planning for a while. When I woke up he wasn’t in bed but I noticed a little note on his pillow, which asked me to get dressed, go outside the bedroom door and to follow whatever I saw out there.
As I went outside the room I could see the beginning of a photo timeline. It started right outside the door and went off downstairs. Right at the start of the line was a red rose with a note saying ‘take me with you’. From the very first photo of us together, to our first time at Glastonbury and our first year anniversary, the photos went on and on. When I reached the TV in the lounge there was a little note saying ‘turn me and the DVD player on and press play’, which I did, only to find Dave on the television with his ukulele in hand. He’d recorded a little message and himself playing a song he’d written for me and then told me to carry on along the string line!
When the timeline finished, I was directed into the conservatory. Inside Dave had set up a table ready for breakfast with flowers, candles, pancakes and a fresh fruit smoothie. As Dave came back from the kitchen he looked a bit nervous and then proceeded to get down onto one knee and asked me to marry him!
We set the date for 25th June 2015 as we’d always wanted a summer wedding when there was the best chance of it being sunny.
We got married at Colshaw Hall in Over Peover, near Knutsford. It’s such a beautiful venue in an equally beautiful setting. It’s in the middle of the countryside on a gorgeous estate. There’s also a wooden ‘mock chapel’ where we had the civil ceremony, which was exactly what we were looking for as we had decided that we didn’t want to get married in a church. It was great because you could hire both the hall itself and there were some cottages too where our closest family and friends could stay on site. They also served breakfast the next morning for everyone who stayed on site and it was delicious!
The theme of the wedding was shabby chic, natural, and I wanted to use hessian. The colour scheme I chose was purple/mauve.
My dress was from a local shop in Poynton, called Timeless Bride. It was simple and elegant. An A-line gown with a lace top, satin bow around the waist at the back and plain satin skirt. Buttons went all the way down the back of the dress. I also wore a single tier veil with a little bit of sparkle! I tried on all different styles of dress but in the end I always knew this shape would suit me best. I absolutely loved my dress!
With it being a summer wedding Dave went for a light grey morning suit. We both wanted Dave to have tails but not a top hat and as it turned out the day was really hot and so this was good choice.
He wore an ivory cravat with the suit, all of which we hired from Whitfield & Ward in Wilmslow. The groomsmen wore the same suit as Dave but had a mauve colour cravat.
The bridesmaids wore a mauve coloured dress from a shop called YS Dress in Stockport. The dresses were simple and classic. They were floor length, strapless designs with a sweetheart neckline in a lovely floaty chiffon material. I wanted something that would suit all my bridesmaids and that they would be comfortable in.
We chose Suzy Wimbourne Photography to capture our day. It was a joy to have Suzy and Alex there on the day and we would absolutely recommend them to everyone! Not only did they take fantastic photographs throughout the day but they are also two of the nicest people we’ve had the pleasure of meeting, it pretty much felt like having two more friends with us on our wedding day!
We’ve nicknamed them ‘photography ninjas’ as we knew they were always there, poised to capture our day but we never felt that they were imposing at all and they just blended in perfectly. We didn’t worry about the photographs at all throughout the day as we trusted them completely and knew that they would capture it in exactly the style we wanted – natural and bright, and their photos really do depict the whole feeling of happiness throughout the day.
Everyone who has seen our photographs has commented on how fantastic they are and we totally agree. We really couldn’t be happier with the photos they took on the day and also in our pre wedding photoshoot a few months prior to the wedding.
My bridesmaids all carried a bundle of gypsophila. My bouquet was of similar size but contained memory lane roses, white lady spray roses, astrantia, dried lavender, ivory astilbe, ivory wax flower, a few clusters of gypsophila and a touch of grey stachys. The bouquets were all bound in hessian. Sian at The Didsbury Flower Lounge was the fantastic florist for our wedding. She was absolutely brilliant.
Floral decorations included a long, low arrangement on the registrar table, which was later moved to the top table for the reception. For our reception table centre pieces we had cylindrical glass vases with twigs inside, coming up through the design with delphiniums and gypsophila clusters sat within the twigs inside the vase and memory lane petals were in the base. Each vase had a loose collar of flowers to complement the bouquets. The bridesmaids’ gypsophila bouquets were also put into vases on the top table. The flowers in the wedding breakfast room looked absolutely fantastic, we were over the moon with how they turned out.
For our favours we decided to make a donation to a local hospice, St. Ann’s. One of my bridesmaids lost her dad to cancer a few years ago and he spent some time at St. Ann’s in his last few weeks, and so we wanted to spend the money on something that was close to our hearts.
We were very lucky to have our cake made as a wedding gift by my sister’s fiancé’s mum. It was absolutely spot on! It had four tiers – two of which were Madeira cakes, one was lemon and the top tier was a fruit cake, which we wanted to use in line with the age old tradition and save it for either our 1st year anniversary or to celebrate the birth of our first child. The cake tiers alternated between a smooth, white finish and ones with scattered flowers on. On top of the cake we had two little fabric ‘bride and groom’ birds which I had made with my own hands.
With having the wedding at Colshaw Hall we had to use their preferred caterer (Barretts Events Caterers), however, this was certainly not a bad thing as the food we had was quite simply the best wedding food we have ever had! We have to give a special mention of the service they provided too – it really was second to none.
When it came to entertainment, we had The Didsbury String Quartet to play during the drinks reception and a live band called The Live Wires, for the evening. Dave was quite adamant about having a string quartet, partly due to the fact that he loves stringed instruments and partly because he was planning on a little surprise involving them. He’d always wanted to play a song with a string quartet so when he finally convinced me to hire the string quartet he went about writing a song and asking them to accompany him on it.
So after we’d had all our photos taken Dave got his ushers to gather everyone around where the string quartet were playing and then he appeared with his guitar. He started playing on his own and then the strings came in and it was amazing! I couldn’t believe it! When they finished, all of our guests went crazy.
Our evening band, The Live Wires, were fantastic too. They got everyone involved and played such an amazing set of songs that got everyone going! We danced until we were allowed to!
Both Dave and I really wanted the day to be a memorable one for everyone (including ourselves) and so we each made the effort to do something special. I really wanted to put my own mark on the day and so really got stuck in and made quite a few little decorative bits and pieces, including decorative jam jars for the tables and walls outside, the table plan, little flags in buckets for the table numbers, luggage tags to save the ceremony chairs for the bride and groom’s family, and also the bride and groom birds for the cake.
We both also wanted to surprise everyone on the night and do a good first dance so we had a good few lessons with a dance teacher who choreographed a dance for us to my chosen song, Save the Last Dance by Michael Buble! It went down a storm and we were so pleased to get through it fairly unscathed.
We would 100 per cent recommend Colshaw Hall to other couples. There were just so many things about the venue that we fell in love with. From the fantastic wooden ceremony hall called ‘The Stables’, to the walled garden and the accommodation in the main hall and in the cottages. From the moment we first went round to look at Colshaw Hall the staff were absolutely fantastic. The attention to detail, the willingness to get involved and all carried out with such friendly professionalism. Shelly oversaw our day and she was an absolute star.
Dave and I loved the whole wedding day, but we’d have to say the happiest part of it was the ceremony. The suspense of seeing each other, feeling totally overwhelmed when we finally did and then making the promises to each other in front of everyone felt so amazing and, this might sound cheesy, but enlightening too. It was something we’ll never do or feel again.
We couldn’t have a hymn as the ceremony wasn’t taking place in a church so instead we had everyone sing a ‘congregational song’ – Frank Sinatra’s You Make Me Feel So Young. We’d printed the words out for everyone and downloaded the karaoke music track and everyone really got into it!
We also had my sister and a close friend sing a couple of songs whilst we were signing the register, as well as three readings by my grandma, Dave’s dad and my cousin.
Straight after the wedding we had a minimoon down in Cornwall in St Ives. We were blessed with great weather, just as we were on the day of the wedding, and we had a lovely relaxing few days reminiscing about the wedding day wishing we could go back and do it all again! We are planning on going to Africa for a safari next year for our main honeymoon in the Serengeti in Tanzania. Then hopefully onto an island in the Indian Ocean to get some relaxation time in (cash depending!)
My top tip to other Brides Up North would be to relax on the day and just go with the flow. Don’t worry about the running of the day; you’ve got all the staff around to make sure it all goes to plan, so just enjoy it! Also, try and enjoy the food during the wedding breakfast! Dave and I didn’t eat much as we were so excited (and also because Dave was nervous about his speech), but afterwards we wish we’d savoured the gorgeous food more!
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