Charlotte Balbier

blossoming romance – a ‘north east’ garden party wedding in essex – hayley & gary

February 28th, 2017 | Alexis Forsyth

A Pretty Garden Wedding (c) Kimberley Waterson (35)

Could there be anything more special than hosting your wedding reception in a friend’s garden? Today’s couple did exactly that – and we simply adore everything about their laid-back and very personal day.

Hayley and Gary exchanged their vows at the most picture-perfect, quaint church, before heading onto a close friend’s house to celebrate inside a beautiful marquee decorated with paper lanterns.

We think this might just be country chic at its very best.

Images by Kimberley Waterson Fine Art Photography 

A Pretty Garden Wedding (c) Kimberley Waterson (42)

hayley says: Gary proposed on 23 November 2014 in Grand Central Station, New York.

Firstly, Gary surprised me with the trip to New York. I knew I was travelling overseas, I just didn’t know where that was until we arrived at the airport. I even carried my engagement ring in my hand luggage without realising!

Little did I know until after the proposal that Gary had been having a nightmare with his three chosen locations for where to propose, due to TV film crews, swarms of seagulls, children throwing food, and busy crowds in unexpected areas. We eventually arrived at Grand Central Station in the afternoon where he made an amazing job of asking me to be his wife!

A Pretty Garden Wedding (c) Kimberley Waterson (11)

We got married two years later on Saturday 27 August 2016. We always knew we wanted to have the wedding on a bank holiday. In order to plan and save for the day properly we picked this month. We also hoped for sunshine with it being in the summer!

Although we are both originally from Co Durham in the North East, Gary’s work has taken him to the south. We decided to get married in the small local church in Lindsell, Essex. This is where Gary now works and lives. We then had the wedding reception in Gary’s employer and very close friend’s garden at his home.

Gary is a professional carer for individuals with spinal injuries. He works and lives with the man who he cares for. Martin, or Tiny as everyone knows him, is a very special person to both of us. His extended generosity to hold the wedding at his home is precedent for the loving and caring man he is. He is very much like a father figure to us both; so much so that he provided the Father of the Bride/Groom speech on the day – and did a fantastic job!

A Pretty Garden Wedding (c) Kimberley Waterson (46)

The main wish for our day was for everyone to be as relaxed as possible and to have fun. We therefore adopted a theme for our day of an informal garden party. Our chosen style was vintage country.

The main colours for the day were mint green, dusky pink and gold.  I always imagined these colours would work well together and we both agreed these complimented the vintage country style.

A Pretty Garden Wedding (c) Kimberley Waterson (65)

I wore a bridal gown named Elsa from designer Eliza Jane Howell, purchased from Kathryn S Trueman Bridal and Occasions in Morpeth. I initially did not have a preference for a style or shape of dress.  I wanted to find something I could move around and eat in – and something unique!

After trying on lots of dresses, I knew I wanted something with a higher neckline and coverage on my arms. This designer has such a 1920s vintage style and this particular dress was lightweight, with a soft sequin covering, small train, ¾ batwing sleeves and high neckline – perfect!  I knew it was the one when my mam cried when she saw me wearing it. I felt like a perfect bride!

My hair was styled by Smith and Co and makeup by House of Skin, both based in Dunmow, Essex.  Both were recommended to me, and were extremely friendly and professional.

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